About

Laws of You is a 31-question observer-rated assessment. You answer Yes/No questions about someone else — a partner, a parent, a boss, a friend — and it profiles how they're wired across nine behavioral dimensions: how much structure they need, how easily they're rattled, how directly they signal what they want, how much status matters to them, how much contact they need, which way they discharge stress, how tightly they guard their autonomy, how naturally they take control, and how long a rupture stays open for them.

Most relationship advice is generic. This is built to be specific to the actual person: the contradiction that makes them hard to read, the loop you both get stuck in, the currency that actually lands as respect to them, the exact place your wiring and theirs grind against each other, and the mistake that costs you more with them than it would with anyone else.

How the results are built

Your 31 answers resolve into a pole — one of two settings — on each of nine dimensions. Those poles combine to select the specific content that matches this person's actual profile, not a generic summary of whichever trait is most visible. The report closes with a section built to be tested: three concrete predictions about what you should start noticing, so you can check the read against reality instead of taking it on faith.

What this isn't

This is not a clinical or diagnostic instrument, and it says nothing certain about anyone's inner life — it's your read of their observable behavior, run through a structured framework. It isn't a substitute for actually talking to the person, and it isn't a tool for managing or manipulating someone against their interests. Treat it as a sharper starting point for a real conversation, not a verdict on who they are.